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According to BusinessWeek, every 5 seconds someone buys a book. For the math – that makes romance novels than $ 1.2 billion U.S. dollars a year industry.
And no wonder.
Experts agree that readers of romance novels is easier to "get in the mood" more often, on average, have sex with their partners. Psychology Today states that women read romance novels make l 'love with their partners74% chance that women who do not. Why? Why, after a scientific study conducted by Harold Leitenberg of the Journal of Sex Research and Psychological Bulletin, when women fantasize frequently carried out (as they do when) I love to read novels, have sex more often, more fun in bed, and the result in a wider variety of erotic activities.
Many therapists now go so far as to recommend reading stories of romance steam to increase a woman's sex drive. TheirThe reason: "to take part in fun activities such as hiking with a partner, listening to music, with a glass of wine, take a bath or reading a book together to help women in the mood for sex. These activities may also help women in their "Sex self-shifting" from her role as mother, wife, employer or workers, "says Carol Rinkleib Ellison, PhD, a psychologist and author of the sexuality of women. Christiane Northrup, MD Women's Health Wisdom is also said to consider "Read novels or renting movies that contain sexual content that will help you in the mood. "
For those of us, enjoy a steamy romance novel on a regular basis, this is not new. We tried to tell so mainstream Sager this all the time. We women are visually "emotional stimulation", as people become aroused. Although the authors reject the more romantic than erotic romance, women do not always require graphic sex scenesbe awakened. After reading an emotionally intense love scene, a woman feels more open to the idea "of love" or "In the Mood" for sex.
Maria Veloso, author of Midwinter Turns to Spring, said: "Contrary to popular belief, the ability of novels of love, sexual desire of a woman is not in the stereotypical bodice ripping, sexually explicit scenes so inherent fuel novels' s love – but in the range of emotions. one in most casesMs libido is directly linked to emotions, which revolves around romance and love. These emotions are a set of processes, the physiological changes, such as participation in heart rate, blood pressure and circulating hormones in the body and these are the cornerstone of a woman's sex drive. Therefore, if a woman is aroused by the emotions of a novel that is a recipe for an emotional aphrodisiac. It 'like giving a woman emotionalPrelude. "
She goes to say that "when women read romance novels, their emotions stirred. Because the emotions of a woman are directly related to their libido, romance novels then virtually aphrodisiac cocktails – or what I call emotional foreplay for women. And this is a prelude to sex. "
Just as people are excited, while encouraging reading magazines naked women, their emotions and their libido while reading a love scene satisfactory. Some criticsMen's magazine or steamy romance novels may doubt this activity is an acceptable alternative for couples in a committed relationship with an improvement in a person's sex life. Some might think these habits can actually take a certain something from a sexual relationship, rather than better. Based on current scientific studies, which happily is not the case.
Sex lives of women and the level of intimacy to be with her husband, friends or partnersshow a marked improvement after reading a novel, because it is only a mood romantic.
So, what is the connection between the novel of romance and sex life better?
Emotional satisfaction.
Something to think if you tried at the bar, are deciding between Cosmo this month and the last novel Romance steam!
Bonnie Williams Copyright (C) 2006
Sources
BusinessWeek Online – 02/12/2006;Love Stories: Reading for Love, The Journal of Sex Research – 2/1/2001, Harold Leitenberg – sexual fantasies on a partner Versus Someone Else: Gender differences in the incidence and frequency, WebMD – 07/26/2004; Dulce Zamora – Revving Up Women's Sex Drive, Women's Health Wisdom Online Newsletter – March 2006, Christiane Northrup, MD – Turn Up the Heat At your request, Psychology Today – September / October 95, Peter Doskoch – safe sex, The Open Press – 02/02 / 2006, MariaVeloso – Love Stories: Are They for the creation of an antidote to boring sex life?
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